A Tale of Two Epidurals, or, The Poppy Arrives

Other alternative titles for this post include: "So That's What a Contraction Feels Like", "A 1???" or "Pleasepleasepleaseplease".

Monday night, the 9th, we spent some time debating when the Poppy would arrive and how (c-section or VBAC).  But debating when a baby will arrive is about as productive as juggling greased lemons so eventually we gave up and went downstairs.  I played Diablo 3 for a while until I realized this off and on discomfort was coming in, shall we say, regular intervals.  Like some kind of, I dunno, contraction perhaps? 

But we didn't really know what to do about it so we went to bed.

After a couple hours of contractions (and no sleep for me), we decided it was time to go in.  But first I threw up dinner (stupid cough).  Anyhoo, we arrived at the hospital about 2 AM and they told me I was at a sad little 1 (of the required 10).  I maybe cried because I didn't want to be sent home again.  But after walking the halls a bit I made it to a 2 and they admitted me.  

This is what happens when they try to draw blood and it won't come out. 

Over the next hour or two, the awesome Dr. B. came by and broke my water (weird) and I made it to a 3.  At that point I was restricted to my bed and decided to get the epidural.  "He'll be here in twenty minutes" they said.  Twenty minutes turned into an hour and it was an awful hour.  Awful.  But he finally showed up and did the thing.

This is what happens when they don't use a short tube on your IV.  Or something?  Lots of tape.

Everything was good for a half hour, until I realized I could feel everything again.  It was very similar to several past experiences at the dentist.  "Oh, are you still not numb?  I guess we'll give you another shot."  It was about another hour before Epidural Man returned, and it was an even awfuler hour.  I was so tired, I couldn't get out of bed and it hurt so bad.  So so so bad.  By this point I'd thrown up three more times.

At this point I started muttering "Pleasepleasepleaseplease", to no one in particular.  Looking back, I feel like I was a crazy person, clawing at my overtight ID band and grabbing at the bed rails.  I was quiet, but crazy.  Drewbles is nice and says I did great notwithstanding.  Anyway, they couldn't explain why the epidural didn't take and so did it again (it was nearing noon by this point).  

Then I fell asleep.  

I was woken up an hour later because the Poppy's heart rate kept dipping and they tried rolling me from this side to the other to get it to pick back up (which it did).  Side note: have you ever tried to roll side to side when you can't feel half your body?  It is basically impossible.  At this point I told Drewbles I was half a body guy.

So, after all the repositioning they told me I was at a 9.5!  Just like that!  In spite of my contraction pattern they said!  So the nurses went over pushing protocol, Dr. B. came in, they gave me some oxygen and put me to work.  Pushing is not hard when you can't feel anything.

Dr. B., the nurses and Drewbles were all so encouraging, and about forty-five minutes later the Poppy made her entrance at 1:56 PM, exactly on her due date.  They plopped her up on me, all bloody and gooey and it was awesome, especially since that couldn't happen last time.  After waiting a bit Drew got to cut the cord, which he didn't get to do last time.  All kinds of firsts, considering this was our second baby, right?  

(Also I got to see the placenta which was bloody, gooey and awesome but not cute at all.)

The Poppy weighed in at 8 pounds, 1 ounce and was a half inch longer than Boo Boo at 20.5 inches.  I love that she has the same fluffy dark hair, though I still cannot explain it.  Thanks, heartburn!  I GUESS.

(I love so much that I don't have heartburn anymore!  And no stupid cough and food doesn't taste like barf!)

So, in the end, after all the low placenta stuff and the breech stuff and the lack of progress stuff, we avoided that second c section and had a perfect VBAC.  Go me, go baby, go everyone else!  I really had no issues with my c-section recovery, I thought it was pretty easy and in some ways it was easier than VBAC recovery.  Mostly I don't like either.  But I'm really glad that I didn't HAVE to have another c-section.

(Custom dry erase marker portrait from Drewbles.  The nurses love these.)

So far the little miss is quite mellow and content.  When she wants something she'll tell you, but she's easily pacified and very snuggly.  I see a lot of sibling resemblance until she opens her eyes, but we'll see what happens as she grows. 

Ready to go home.

As for that sibling, he likes to look at her and has held her once on his own initiative.  He doesn't seem to resent her, though he's definitely been a bit touchy.  But we are just trying to be patient and sympathetic to this big change in his world and I think things will settle down soon.  (You can compare his newborn pictures on this post.  They both like having their fluffy hair washed.)

(I have two kids?  Whaaaaa?)

 

(He loves this cup!  Luckily I still had an identical one from when he was born.)

And now we are a family of four, just like that.  It is amazing how these little humans grow and develop and finally enter the world, ready to go. 

Welcome, little one!  We're going to have a great time.

Room for the Poppy

I agonized a bit over what the Poppy's room should look like.  My first theme was books, inspired by this Jessie Wilcox Smith painting, but it just wasn't coming together.

Around this time my Granny passed away and while I was reading her memoirs I was reminded that she loved Beatrix Potter's books and I thought "AHA!"  Not only is it a good theme, it's a nice reference to Granny as well.  Along with the theme, I had a motto of "feminine, not girly" and that worked perfectly with Beatrix Potter.

The room was originally the same brown as the rest of the house, with a white chair rail.  I eventually settled on a rosey pink for the bottom part of the wall and a light grey for the top.  Naturally Drewbles did all the grunt work.  Let's look at some pictures of the whole setup (complete with a model for scale):

We moved the white dresser from Boo Boo's room and got new bins for it.  The rocker/recliner was a KSL deal and I couldn't be happier with it.  This bedroom is smaller so I think it makes more sense to use the smaller chair in it. 
 
And yes, that is a name sign hanging over the dresser and yes, I did photoshop the name out of it.  Ha!  But I will tell you that the letters match the Beatrix Potter font, but I had to create them myself in Photoshop because you can't find that font (it's owned by the publisher, I believe?).  I will also tell you that's a three-photo IKEA frame that I cut the dividers out of to make it one long rectangle. I'm very DIY about my name signs?

Moving on.  The night light was one we've had sitting around for years, and Drewbles got me the set of books for Valentine's Day.  He also contributed an original Peter Rabbit art, and the three on the wall are postcards I got off eBay.  

Bonus fact: the frames are from our wedding reception (I added the ribbons).  We STILL have four or five more...

We hung up this painting my sister did for me a few years ago.  She based it off a picture I took in Windermere, near Beatrix Potter's Hill Top House. 

(You can also see a corner of the rug we got to cover a bad patch of carpet but you'll have to look at the website to see the whole thing.)

Sometimes my model gets impatient for some camera attention.  Please ignore his runny nose and admire his tongue rolling skills.

Bonus fact: I can't roll my tongue.

Okay, let's look at the other wall: 

We were all saved from having to make the toddler bed transition by Drew's sister loaning us one of her portable cribs.  *long sigh of relief*  We got a new mattress and sheets for it, and it looks great!  The white crib will look lovely too, but I'm glad there's no pressure to move Boo Boo out of it (thanks again, Emily!).

No, I did not make a mobile this time.  I just...didn't.  But I did buy this one and every time Boo Boo walks in the room he says "OOOOooooOOOO!!!" so that's a good sign.

(Approved by Boo Boo and cars alike)

Let's take a closer look at that blanket draped over the back:

This was actually my baby blanket, once upon a time!  Over Thanksgiving my mom removed the original ties and backing fabric (both were very orange) and we found a peachy flannel and this pale green yarn.  My sister and I tied it and my mom did the rest of the work (she also added interfacing to the original fabric, just to make it sturdier).  I think it is perfect!

Bonus fact: I always thought my mom made this blanket for me.  But over Thanksgiving she told me my Granny did!  I think that means I made the right choice of theme.  Also that she had a lot of foresight...
  
And as the finishing touch:

Yes, Peter Rabbit is a boy.  I don't care!  And that is the room.  It turned out just right, and I am pleased that we were rather thrifty and creative about the whole thing too.  *pats back*

These next few things have nothing to do with the room.  I'm just tooting my craft horn.  I made these super simple headbands:

I made this blanket:

Then I made this blanket, using Beatrix Potter fabric I found on eBay.  I can't wait for the Poppy to spit up allllllll over it...

*toot toot*